My child, you are trying to love through your flesh alone. Ask Me for more grace to love each day. I will show you how to love others. This means a willingness to be inconvenienced, but I will give you the needed grace to die to self. When you fall in love with Me you gladly give yourself away.
There are times you need to communicate needs and desires in your relationships. Then after you have communicated your desires, ask Me to work in their heart. Regardless of their response, continue to love. When you stand before Me, I will ask you how well you loved. This is pretty important to Me. Wouldn't it be better for you to have loved receiving nothing, than to withhold love and miss out on My blessings? Come to Me for your healing and restoration. I know exactly what you need to make you whole.
John 14:21 Amplified Bible (AMP)
The person who has My commands and keeps them is the one who [really] loves Me; and whoever [really] loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I [too] will love him and will show (reveal, manifest) Myself to him. [I will let Myself be clearly seen by him and make Myself real to him.]
1 John 4:7-10 The Message (MSG)
7-10 My beloved friends, let us continue to love each other since love comes from God. Everyone who loves is born of God and experiences a relationship with God. The person who refuses to love doesn’t know the first thing about God, because God is love—so you can’t know him if you don’t love. This is how God showed his love for us: God sent his only Son into the world so we might live through him. This is the kind of love we are talking about—not that we once upon a time loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to clear away our sins and the damage they’ve done to our relationship with God.
Psalm 147:3 Amplified Bible (AMP)
He heals the brokenhearted
And binds up their wounds [healing their pain and comforting their sorrow].